The KimBoo Manifesto…in progress

Three years ago, I found myself progressively applying for graduate school, getting divorced, and in a “worst case scenario come true” twist, unexpectedly laid off. The ex and I are still friends, I’ve graduated with my Master’s, and I pulled...

Me – an experiment in “coming out”

Recently I’ve been talking a lot with several friends and my brother David Abrams about issues relating to vulnerability, self-worth, and what Brene Brown called “whole hearted living.” It’s posed an interesting connection to my Enneagram* personality type, which is a...

Waiting for Disaster

This isn’t a meandering, depressing essay about inadequacy, in case you were wondering. It’s more a surprised realization of how often I tend to sit idly by and wait for disaster to strike, and why. My adopted brother David and I were at dinner discussing something...

How Edgar Wright Gave me a nervous breakdown

In 2007 I saw the movie Hot Fuzz and proceeded to stumble, tumble, and otherwise crash into a slow-motion emotional breakdown that culminated in April of 2008 with a multi-day catastrophic withdrawal from life. Intensive therapy came later. FTR, Hot Fuzz is a comedy...

The Price of Friendship

I am, honestly, a pretty lousy friend. Not on purpose, I assure you; I’m just not good at it naturally. I didn’t get the socialization I needed when I was young, among other things, and so friendship is something I have to consciously think about doing right (vs....

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